"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Sex with other gilrs whilst in a relationship advice
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
dustmuffin
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The gist within experienced women is that guys always screw others as long as they come back to the wife and keep it quiet is deemed to be normal ?
dustmuffin
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I expect loyalty from the woman I am in an ltr or marriage with. I give her the same. If she doesn't I leave. If I can't I leave. Its simple.
amazingswayze
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
amazingswayze
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lol its just a vid i saw a while ago. it was so controversial at the time so i find it funny to post here. i don't necessarily agree though.... lmao ruler
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I think the main point to making this work is to not do it if it will hurt her feelings, which it obviously will not if she accepts an open relationship. Another point to make is fairness, if you can have the freedom to fvck someone else so should she.
An open relationship is one where you're in a relationship and have mutually agreed it's ok to fvck someone else, mostly without letting it affect the relationship. So clearly this approach requires you to be pretty strong emotionally, to not become attached to the others you fvck. It's also a good idea to inform the others you fvck that you're in an open relationship and you're doing it just for the sex.
This might seem like a lot to handle, and it is. I'm telling you because it will keep you out of trouble and you'll have to stick to it to not make a mess. It's perfectly possible to do this, but since it's not normal you must communicate it clearly.
The other alternative is to be a pvssy and not tell the truth to the person you supposedly love. That's what we commonly refer to as cheating, it only works as long as you're not caught. Eventually it will break down and she will know the truth, from that point you're fvcked. Not just because of the cheating itself, but because you broke the number one rule of healthy relationships which is trust and honesty.
Please use your brain before going near this.