"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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call her up, make plans, talk in person...see if she brings up anything first and see how she acts. if nothing gets brought up, then bring it up yourself. and don't be like "hey are you my girlfriend now?" or something similiar cuz i'd have reflashes of Night at the Roxberry.
 
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Jonathan said:
So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
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NO.
Just call her to get together and hang out. Nothing more, If she wants something else she will let you know.
 
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Jonathan said:
Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
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lets rephrase that, what do you want out of this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jonathan said:
Im not sure shes my best friend and i dont want it to get weird between us
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Too late for that, you havent spoken to her since.

I'd advise calling her to hangout, pretend like nothing happened. If there are awkward moments, then bring it up and talk about it.
 
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it might be too late to go back, dont wait for her to call, you call her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Never have a girl as your best friend. You won't turn out right...i've seen it happen.
 
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