"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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call her up, make plans, talk in person...see if she brings up anything first and see how she acts. if nothing gets brought up, then bring it up yourself. and don't be like "hey are you my girlfriend now?" or something similiar cuz i'd have reflashes of Night at the Roxberry.
 
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Jonathan said:
So this girl is like my best friend for many years since highschool and ive truly never thought about a relationship with her even though shes easily a 9.We have a great friendship and we never have any akward moments between each other.So a week ago she invites me to go out and dance,we go out and have a great time and one thing led to another and end up sleeping together.Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
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NO.
Just call her to get together and hang out. Nothing more, If she wants something else she will let you know.
 
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Jonathan said:
Now i havent talked to her for a few days and im confused,im not sure if i should ask her to be my girlfriend or did she just use me for a booty call? help me so suave
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lets rephrase that, what do you want out of this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jonathan said:
Im not sure shes my best friend and i dont want it to get weird between us
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Too late for that, you havent spoken to her since.

I'd advise calling her to hangout, pretend like nothing happened. If there are awkward moments, then bring it up and talk about it.
 
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it might be too late to go back, dont wait for her to call, you call her.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Never have a girl as your best friend. You won't turn out right...i've seen it happen.
 
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