"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i've been with my girlfriend for the last 5 months. 2 days ago i went to her house to make love to her (it was the first time for both, although her hymen has already broken, 'cuz of fingerin'). we've done almost everything together (bl0wjobs, handj0bs, eatin pu44y, 69...), besides penetration. i didn't know how to wear a condom properly (blame me), and i enrolled it before wearin' it... that's hard to explain... i mean: i put it on wrong:)
i tried to penetrate, but i could penetrate her just with the point of my penis, then it would slip out of her pu44y... is it just 'cuz i wore the condom in a wrong way or are there other problems? could it be because she was too wet? i was very scared out by an eventual pregnancy, so i kept my hand on the condom, as i felt it was about to sleep out? maybe this has influenced? i personally think it's all due to the fact that the condom was worn unproperly...
answers and advices are appreciated
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Most likely, your **** wasn't hard enough. Putting the condom on the right way helps too.
 
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i suppose u r right... i'm not at all embarassed by her... she always sees me naked... even the first time she saw my ****, i was proud of it, not embarassed. this time tho, i couldn't manage to keep it hard... some days ago, i tried puttin' the condom on (the wrong way) and it occurred like 5 minutes, 'cuz the d1ck always got soft... is it easier to keep it hard, if u wear the condom the proper way? thx
 
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Like trying to stick an oyster into a slot machine...:p

Sounds like she was too tight and you were too limp. As for the condom, roll it on... don't slide it on. Just relax next time, let your animal instincts take control.:cool:

BTW, isn't this a H&F question?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Like trying to stick an oyster into a slot machine...:p

Originally posted by Spike_the_Dragon
BTW, isn't this a H&F question?
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Spike_the_punch :)p ), since he isn't asking if he has an STD or a syptom of something, then no. He is asking about the actual act of sex.
 
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you went limp cause you have been spending too much time studying for the SAT. All that studying can make your **** go numb ;)
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Delicious
you went limp cause you have been spending too much time studying for the SAT. All that studying can make your **** go numb ;)
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The guy is from ITALY!! I guess geography isn't studied on the SATs where you live... :p
 
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Originally posted by Engetsu
The guy is from ITALY!! I guess geography isn't studied on the SATs where you live... :p
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Dude's still studying for the SAT though.
 
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delicious and casanova are right, they are referrin' to the last thread i posted:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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