Ok guys, this has been a problem for me for awhile im 18. Ive had sex with 4 different girls in my lifetime. The wierd thing is, i never can get myself to get off via sex.... I dont know if its the condoms or what. I can get off from handjobs and ****, but very rarely will the girl actaully give me one, some are selfish *****es. But i cannot orgasm from sex, what the **** do i do?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
quit f-ing hores, find a nice TIGHT gurl
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
If you sleep with chicks on a regular basis your d1ck will get sensitized to the feeling, but if you're masturbating too much your d1ck will need more pressure and friction that it has gotten accustomed to from your hand.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i have kinda the same problem, sometimes i cant even *** from a bj, which leads me to basically masturbating in front of a girls face if she cant get the job done.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i think more and more people are having a harder time orgasming now, that lasting longer.... you can blame this on the feminists