Ok guys, this has been a problem for me for awhile im 18. Ive had sex with 4 different girls in my lifetime. The wierd thing is, i never can get myself to get off via sex.... I dont know if its the condoms or what. I can get off from handjobs and ****, but very rarely will the girl actaully give me one, some are selfish *****es. But i cannot orgasm from sex, what the **** do i do?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
quit f-ing hores, find a nice TIGHT gurl
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
If you sleep with chicks on a regular basis your d1ck will get sensitized to the feeling, but if you're masturbating too much your d1ck will need more pressure and friction that it has gotten accustomed to from your hand.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i have kinda the same problem, sometimes i cant even *** from a bj, which leads me to basically masturbating in front of a girls face if she cant get the job done.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i think more and more people are having a harder time orgasming now, that lasting longer.... you can blame this on the feminists