Ok guys, this has been a problem for me for awhile im 18. Ive had sex with 4 different girls in my lifetime. The wierd thing is, i never can get myself to get off via sex.... I dont know if its the condoms or what. I can get off from handjobs and ****, but very rarely will the girl actaully give me one, some are selfish *****es. But i cannot orgasm from sex, what the **** do i do?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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- Thread starter Swede54
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
quit f-ing hores, find a nice TIGHT gurl
Dark Nimbus
Senior Don Juan
If you sleep with chicks on a regular basis your d1ck will get sensitized to the feeling, but if you're masturbating too much your d1ck will need more pressure and friction that it has gotten accustomed to from your hand.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i have kinda the same problem, sometimes i cant even *** from a bj, which leads me to basically masturbating in front of a girls face if she cant get the job done.
undesputable
Master Don Juan
i think more and more people are having a harder time orgasming now, that lasting longer.... you can blame this on the feminists