You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Amen.Mr Charisma said:This place just gets worse and worse.
I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?Mr Charisma said:This place just gets worse and worse.
I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?mrRuckus said:Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever.
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.mrRuckus said:What do you want?
I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here...Mr Charisma said:If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.
This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:
"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"
People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hmm that's not a bad way to look on things actually.Francisco d'Anconia said:I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here...![]()
LOL! couldn't have said it better myself.mrRuckus said:Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?
guy 1: "man, there's no girl here."
guy 2: "yea."
guy 3: "this place sucks"
And then they come back the same night next week. Every bar. Every week.
I can definitely see your point. Vomit on a girl? lol! :crackup: But seriously, as long as dreamx is around, its never gonna happen. Just ignore it. Its pretty simple.Mr Charisma said:If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.
This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:
"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"
People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.