You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Amen.Mr Charisma said:This place just gets worse and worse.
I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?Mr Charisma said:This place just gets worse and worse.
I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?mrRuckus said:Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever.
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.mrRuckus said:What do you want?
I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here...Mr Charisma said:If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.
This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:
"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"
People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hmm that's not a bad way to look on things actually.Francisco d'Anconia said:I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here...![]()
LOL! couldn't have said it better myself.mrRuckus said:Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?
guy 1: "man, there's no girl here."
guy 2: "yea."
guy 3: "this place sucks"
And then they come back the same night next week. Every bar. Every week.
I can definitely see your point. Vomit on a girl? lol! :crackup: But seriously, as long as dreamx is around, its never gonna happen. Just ignore it. Its pretty simple.Mr Charisma said:If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.
This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:
"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"
People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.