"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sex after eating

killerasp

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Someone once told me "its not a good idea to have sex after eating a big meal".

Any truth to this?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This place just gets worse and worse.

I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
 

Rebound Material

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I can only imagine....you both start burping into eachothers faces...you/her farts when reaching orgasm...sounds like fun...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Mr Charisma said:
This place just gets worse and worse.

I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
Amen.
 

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Mr Charisma said:
This place just gets worse and worse.

I miss the days when this place used to mean something.
Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?

guy 1: "man, there's no girl here."
guy 2: "yea."
guy 3: "this place sucks"

And then they come back the same night next week. Every bar. Every week.
 

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It might make you tired.

Other than that, no.
 

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dude... its no swimming after eating.

why do guys take women out to fancy dinners? ...



to get sex
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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sex after a big meal may not necessarily be bad but for myself, i do feel uncomfortable after a big meal. depends on yourself as an individual and how much you ate. my sexual appetite drops after a huge as meal. XD
 

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Depends.

If you take her out to eat some spicy tacos/burritos and then decide to toss her salad, or the good old greek, then you could be in for a surprise.

Been there, done that. Don't ask.
 

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One of the most violent orgasms my sweetheart has had, was after a Big Mac and fries.

Since then junk food's always been our fuel of choice. Viagra.... naaaaaah, pass the ketchup.

edit: btw, I had the Big Mac and fries. she had a plain burger.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever.
If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?

mrRuckus said:
What do you want?
I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.

This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:

"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"

People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Mr Charisma said:
If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?



I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.

This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:

"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"

People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here... ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I've come to accept that these posts just gives us insight into the types of guys we are competing with when sarging. No worries here... ;)
Hmm that's not a bad way to look on things actually. :cool:
 

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Think about this for a second. No woman wants to knock it out with a guy who's just downed a cheesburger with onions or garlic scampi. It's not a physical thing, it's a breath thing. The opposite is true also. For all of the care and primping a woman does to prepare for a date or going out to meet guys, she's not going to want to be anything less than minty fresh. If a woman is chowing down on a big meal, odds are she has no intent of sleeping with you that night.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Aww isn't that cute? Every message board there's people like you who say the same thing. Repeatedly. As if it's a new observation and you're so clever. What do you want?

guy 1: "man, there's no girl here."
guy 2: "yea."
guy 3: "this place sucks"

And then they come back the same night next week. Every bar. Every week.
LOL! couldn't have said it better myself.
 

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Mr Charisma said:
If many people are saying this then perhaps it's time something should be done about these moronic threads. Don't you agree?



I want sensible questions that relate to seduction. Isn't that what this place is about? Do you think a question like this would be tolerated on another forum such as mASF? Course not.

This place used to have thought-provoking posts. Now we're stuck with sh*t like:

"Hey guys, someone told me that it's not a good idea to vomit on a girl. Any truth to this?"

People need to use some f*cking common sense. And mods need to delete this kind of sh*t on sight.
I can definitely see your point. Vomit on a girl? lol! :crackup: But seriously, as long as dreamx is around, its never gonna happen. Just ignore it. Its pretty simple.
 

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Well, I used to eat big meals with my girlfriend, rest a little, then getting back to the good old humpa-humpa.

But we were in a comitted relationship, so I think that's different. I guess a fling wouldn't stand stuff like this.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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