"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Several female friends tell me my FB profile picture is creepy; help me.

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I'm new to the online world in the sense that I've never used Myspace or Facebook for the tools they are.

I'm after ideas for a good profile picture; I've never been one to take pictures of myself, so I don't quite know what to do here.

Additionally, I'm of average appearance if that helps deciding what I go for here.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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..............I don't get why this had to be a thread topic
 
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This thread is useless without a pic.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wanna see a picture too.

A natural smile brings most pictures to life!
 
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I don't need to see the pic. I already know that it looks like this:

http://geeksdreamgirl.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/webcam5.jpg


That's not the OP, but it is about 90% of guys who can't figure out why they can't get girls online. They think a shirtless self-pic in their own bedroom alone is attractive, and in trying to look sexy, also stare down the camera like a serial killer. If they are lucky enough to get to even email with a girl, at the first opportunity, they will start bombarding her with blurry photos of their own d!cks, taken with a camera phone shoved down their pants. Then of course when these tactics do not work right away, the woman is a low-quality attention wh0re tease.

An online pic that works would be the opposite in every way. You're in public with people around you, all having fun, and doing something. If you have to show a pic of you with no shirt on, it must look like a coincidence. Be on a boat or beach or somewhere that having no shirt is normal. Flexing your muscles in front of the mirror in your bedroom for a self-pic will only make you look creepy.
 
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