"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Several female friends tell me my FB profile picture is creepy; help me.

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I'm new to the online world in the sense that I've never used Myspace or Facebook for the tools they are.

I'm after ideas for a good profile picture; I've never been one to take pictures of myself, so I don't quite know what to do here.

Additionally, I'm of average appearance if that helps deciding what I go for here.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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..............I don't get why this had to be a thread topic
 
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This thread is useless without a pic.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wanna see a picture too.

A natural smile brings most pictures to life!
 
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I don't need to see the pic. I already know that it looks like this:

http://geeksdreamgirl.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/webcam5.jpg


That's not the OP, but it is about 90% of guys who can't figure out why they can't get girls online. They think a shirtless self-pic in their own bedroom alone is attractive, and in trying to look sexy, also stare down the camera like a serial killer. If they are lucky enough to get to even email with a girl, at the first opportunity, they will start bombarding her with blurry photos of their own d!cks, taken with a camera phone shoved down their pants. Then of course when these tactics do not work right away, the woman is a low-quality attention wh0re tease.

An online pic that works would be the opposite in every way. You're in public with people around you, all having fun, and doing something. If you have to show a pic of you with no shirt on, it must look like a coincidence. Be on a boat or beach or somewhere that having no shirt is normal. Flexing your muscles in front of the mirror in your bedroom for a self-pic will only make you look creepy.
 
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