"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Several female friends tell me my FB profile picture is creepy; help me.

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I'm new to the online world in the sense that I've never used Myspace or Facebook for the tools they are.

I'm after ideas for a good profile picture; I've never been one to take pictures of myself, so I don't quite know what to do here.

Additionally, I'm of average appearance if that helps deciding what I go for here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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..............I don't get why this had to be a thread topic
 
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This thread is useless without a pic.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I wanna see a picture too.

A natural smile brings most pictures to life!
 
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I don't need to see the pic. I already know that it looks like this:

http://geeksdreamgirl.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/webcam5.jpg


That's not the OP, but it is about 90% of guys who can't figure out why they can't get girls online. They think a shirtless self-pic in their own bedroom alone is attractive, and in trying to look sexy, also stare down the camera like a serial killer. If they are lucky enough to get to even email with a girl, at the first opportunity, they will start bombarding her with blurry photos of their own d!cks, taken with a camera phone shoved down their pants. Then of course when these tactics do not work right away, the woman is a low-quality attention wh0re tease.

An online pic that works would be the opposite in every way. You're in public with people around you, all having fun, and doing something. If you have to show a pic of you with no shirt on, it must look like a coincidence. Be on a boat or beach or somewhere that having no shirt is normal. Flexing your muscles in front of the mirror in your bedroom for a self-pic will only make you look creepy.
 
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