"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hi,
Ok so a problem i have. one girl seems to be busy. and it's not just the "im busy can't go", I'm getting some maybe plausible real reasons. So, when setting up a date, do you guys say "when are you free" or give a set time? i feel like giving a set time makes it easy for them to say no.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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No, don't ask when they're free.
asianbboy said:
i feel like giving a set time makes it easy for them to say no.
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This is the wrong way to think. If she's interested, she WILL find a way to see you. Her declining AND not making a counter-offer, especially doing this multiple times, is a clear sign of disinterest.
 
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That seems like good advice, but... what if the girl's just shy? She seems quite enthusiastic when I talk to her, I get a feeling she likes me. I'm not going to put too much weight on it but I just think that it's not really a rejection.
 
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again dude NO MATTER HOW SHY SHE IS A GIRL WILL ALWAYS MAKE TIME FOR YOU. If she didnt counter offer thats a low IOI
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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asianbboy said:
That seems like good advice, but... what if the girl's just shy? She seems quite enthusiastic when I talk to her, I get a feeling she likes me. I'm not going to put too much weight on it but I just think that it's not really a rejection.
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You are being a major pvssy. So what if you get rejected? Deal with it and move on
 
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Give her an option. I just texting a girl "Hey, are you free Thursday or Friday this week?" And she texted back "hmm, I've got a lot going on Thursday but I'm definitely free Friday :)"

Worked out for me...
 
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