"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi,
Ok so a problem i have. one girl seems to be busy. and it's not just the "im busy can't go", I'm getting some maybe plausible real reasons. So, when setting up a date, do you guys say "when are you free" or give a set time? i feel like giving a set time makes it easy for them to say no.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No, don't ask when they're free.
asianbboy said:
i feel like giving a set time makes it easy for them to say no.
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This is the wrong way to think. If she's interested, she WILL find a way to see you. Her declining AND not making a counter-offer, especially doing this multiple times, is a clear sign of disinterest.
 
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That seems like good advice, but... what if the girl's just shy? She seems quite enthusiastic when I talk to her, I get a feeling she likes me. I'm not going to put too much weight on it but I just think that it's not really a rejection.
 
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again dude NO MATTER HOW SHY SHE IS A GIRL WILL ALWAYS MAKE TIME FOR YOU. If she didnt counter offer thats a low IOI
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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asianbboy said:
That seems like good advice, but... what if the girl's just shy? She seems quite enthusiastic when I talk to her, I get a feeling she likes me. I'm not going to put too much weight on it but I just think that it's not really a rejection.
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You are being a major pvssy. So what if you get rejected? Deal with it and move on
 
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Give her an option. I just texting a girl "Hey, are you free Thursday or Friday this week?" And she texted back "hmm, I've got a lot going on Thursday but I'm definitely free Friday :)"

Worked out for me...
 
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