Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Set up a date on the phone or in person?

pvf94

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Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
 

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face to face is prolly better as there won't be a need for a phone convo unless ur just reconfirming plans.
 

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pvf94 said:
Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
It doesn't make any difference. Just remember in the initial phase of the relationship to take her out only on the weekdays, never the weekends.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pvf94

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Crank_It_Up said:
avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
What a useless post eh fellas? ^^ I did not say I would not do either, I was asking which one would be smarter and seeing as to how this is a self improvement community what better place to ask my questions that I do not have answers to? Piss off and go post your useless garbage elsewhere.

Anyhow, thanks for the replies. Ill go with asking her to chill in person, seems easier and Devane put it in a real good perspective, thanks budd.
 

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ask in person only if you own a spandex tight super hero costume.....just make sure the ****piece is in the front.

When using the phone start with "HELLO SYNDNEY........MEMBER ME" it helps if you got the theme to halloween or psycho in the background.

Dude sheesh........a chic HANDS YOU A NUMBER, TELLS YOU TO CALL..........and you are wondering which method to utilize.

wake up and smell the vagina........TOMARROW.........when she walks by........say hey lets do drinks after work.........nuff said. He who hesitates .....masturbates.....STOP OVERTHINKING THIS. ITS ALMOST like a chic says do u think my vagina tastes funny....and shoves it in your face and you are asking what should I do...............man O man......NIKE----JUST DO IT ALREADY.
 
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