"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Set up a date on the phone or in person?

pvf94

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Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
 

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face to face is prolly better as there won't be a need for a phone convo unless ur just reconfirming plans.
 

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pvf94 said:
Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
It doesn't make any difference. Just remember in the initial phase of the relationship to take her out only on the weekdays, never the weekends.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pvf94

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Crank_It_Up said:
avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
What a useless post eh fellas? ^^ I did not say I would not do either, I was asking which one would be smarter and seeing as to how this is a self improvement community what better place to ask my questions that I do not have answers to? Piss off and go post your useless garbage elsewhere.

Anyhow, thanks for the replies. Ill go with asking her to chill in person, seems easier and Devane put it in a real good perspective, thanks budd.
 

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ask in person only if you own a spandex tight super hero costume.....just make sure the ****piece is in the front.

When using the phone start with "HELLO SYNDNEY........MEMBER ME" it helps if you got the theme to halloween or psycho in the background.

Dude sheesh........a chic HANDS YOU A NUMBER, TELLS YOU TO CALL..........and you are wondering which method to utilize.

wake up and smell the vagina........TOMARROW.........when she walks by........say hey lets do drinks after work.........nuff said. He who hesitates .....masturbates.....STOP OVERTHINKING THIS. ITS ALMOST like a chic says do u think my vagina tastes funny....and shoves it in your face and you are asking what should I do...............man O man......NIKE----JUST DO IT ALREADY.
 
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