"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Set up a date on the phone or in person?

pvf94

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Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
 

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face to face is prolly better as there won't be a need for a phone convo unless ur just reconfirming plans.
 

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pvf94 said:
Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
It doesn't make any difference. Just remember in the initial phase of the relationship to take her out only on the weekdays, never the weekends.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Crank_It_Up said:
avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
What a useless post eh fellas? ^^ I did not say I would not do either, I was asking which one would be smarter and seeing as to how this is a self improvement community what better place to ask my questions that I do not have answers to? Piss off and go post your useless garbage elsewhere.

Anyhow, thanks for the replies. Ill go with asking her to chill in person, seems easier and Devane put it in a real good perspective, thanks budd.
 

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ask in person only if you own a spandex tight super hero costume.....just make sure the ****piece is in the front.

When using the phone start with "HELLO SYNDNEY........MEMBER ME" it helps if you got the theme to halloween or psycho in the background.

Dude sheesh........a chic HANDS YOU A NUMBER, TELLS YOU TO CALL..........and you are wondering which method to utilize.

wake up and smell the vagina........TOMARROW.........when she walks by........say hey lets do drinks after work.........nuff said. He who hesitates .....masturbates.....STOP OVERTHINKING THIS. ITS ALMOST like a chic says do u think my vagina tastes funny....and shoves it in your face and you are asking what should I do...............man O man......NIKE----JUST DO IT ALREADY.
 
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