"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Set up a date on the phone or in person?

pvf94

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Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Crank_It_Up

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avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
 

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face to face is prolly better as there won't be a need for a phone convo unless ur just reconfirming plans.
 

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pvf94 said:
Which is better?

If you see the individual and talk to them briefly once a day a few times a week is it better to set up a date in person or over the phone, given the circumstances a girl gave me her number without me asking again. And I am wondering which road to take

To ask in person, or over phone?
It doesn't make any difference. Just remember in the initial phase of the relationship to take her out only on the weekdays, never the weekends.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pvf94

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Crank_It_Up said:
avoid a face to face at all costs, it's just too damn frightening, better to have your mom call her mom, it's much more manly.
What a useless post eh fellas? ^^ I did not say I would not do either, I was asking which one would be smarter and seeing as to how this is a self improvement community what better place to ask my questions that I do not have answers to? Piss off and go post your useless garbage elsewhere.

Anyhow, thanks for the replies. Ill go with asking her to chill in person, seems easier and Devane put it in a real good perspective, thanks budd.
 

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ask in person only if you own a spandex tight super hero costume.....just make sure the ****piece is in the front.

When using the phone start with "HELLO SYNDNEY........MEMBER ME" it helps if you got the theme to halloween or psycho in the background.

Dude sheesh........a chic HANDS YOU A NUMBER, TELLS YOU TO CALL..........and you are wondering which method to utilize.

wake up and smell the vagina........TOMARROW.........when she walks by........say hey lets do drinks after work.........nuff said. He who hesitates .....masturbates.....STOP OVERTHINKING THIS. ITS ALMOST like a chic says do u think my vagina tastes funny....and shoves it in your face and you are asking what should I do...............man O man......NIKE----JUST DO IT ALREADY.
 
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