"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Set goals, and tape them to your wall/door.

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On my door is a piece of paper that reads:

GOALS

Bench - 300 lb
Squat - 400 lb
Chin - 20 rep
Dip - 20 rep
DB Bent Row - 100lbs x 10l+10r
KB Snatch - 88lbs x 20l+20r x 5
Mile - 6:00

When I see this piece of paper, I think to myself, "I could be doing something to get closer to this goal, couldn't I?" If you need motivation, do this.

Post done. Time for more push-ups.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop... and a pic of a girl you'd like to ****... :)

good tip MF
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop... and a pic of a girl you'd like to ****... :)

good tip MF
Damn good shyt there. Been doing it since I started - Good old Franco Columbo ;) Although, this is most definately another excuse to be adding another chick to my garage wall :D
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop...
I don't really do that because I'm going for freaky strength and conditioning, with size and definition being secondary. With guys who are going for size and definition primarily though, it is a good idea.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I don't really do that because I'm going for freaky strength and conditioning, with size and definition being secondary. With guys who are going for size and definition primarily though, it is a good idea.
Than post a picture of ivan drago on your mirror, and go to russia and carry logs up mountains.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yeah, I'm going for strength too - which is why I have franco... christ, if a picture of a 195lbs guy deadlifting what looks to be about 700lbs doesnt motivate you, you have serious issues :p
 
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