"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Set goals, and tape them to your wall/door.

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On my door is a piece of paper that reads:

GOALS

Bench - 300 lb
Squat - 400 lb
Chin - 20 rep
Dip - 20 rep
DB Bent Row - 100lbs x 10l+10r
KB Snatch - 88lbs x 20l+20r x 5
Mile - 6:00

When I see this piece of paper, I think to myself, "I could be doing something to get closer to this goal, couldn't I?" If you need motivation, do this.

Post done. Time for more push-ups.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop... and a pic of a girl you'd like to ****... :)

good tip MF
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop... and a pic of a girl you'd like to ****... :)

good tip MF
Damn good shyt there. Been doing it since I started - Good old Franco Columbo ;) Although, this is most definately another excuse to be adding another chick to my garage wall :D
 

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Originally posted by Lifeforce
Don't forget to post a pic of a man who has a body you would like to develop...
I don't really do that because I'm going for freaky strength and conditioning, with size and definition being secondary. With guys who are going for size and definition primarily though, it is a good idea.
 

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I don't really do that because I'm going for freaky strength and conditioning, with size and definition being secondary. With guys who are going for size and definition primarily though, it is a good idea.
Than post a picture of ivan drago on your mirror, and go to russia and carry logs up mountains.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yeah, I'm going for strength too - which is why I have franco... christ, if a picture of a 195lbs guy deadlifting what looks to be about 700lbs doesnt motivate you, you have serious issues :p
 
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