"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've used condoms my whole life so far. Even during my LTR.

For those of you that have sex with your girlfriend or FB or whatever and are NOT using a condom at the time... where do you blow your load? On her, in her(if on the pill?), on the bed, on yourself..?

Whats the normal thing to do?:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you guys serious? I assume only if you're 100% sure she's on the pill then "in her" would be the norm?

What if you're not sure she's on the pill?
 

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stumped said:
I've used condoms my whole life so far. Even during my LTR.

For those of you that have sex with your girlfriend or FB or whatever and are NOT using a condom at the time... where do you blow your load? On her, in her(if on the pill?), on the bed, on yourself..?

Whats the normal thing to do?:confused:
Well certainly not on your bed!:crackup: On yourself? And how on earth would that happen???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I just pull out and bust on her stomach and chest.
Sometimes it shoots in her hair or on her face :crackup:
 

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Sometimes it shoots in her hair or on her face

I know, I have awful aim too. I think the stains on her wall are still there.
 

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Even if she's on the pill, you got no business blowing your load inside her, you gotta make sure you turn her into a glazed donut.
 

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tell her to suck dry
its fun for you ,
its fun for her,
it makes no mess
and there is never a need for a pregnancy test.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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penkitten said:
tell her to suck dry
its fun for you ,
its fun for her,
it makes no mess
and there is never a need for a pregnancy test.

can you explain "suck dry"
 

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I always blow in them. 9/10 women around where I live are on the pill. I tend to know them a while before or they tell me their definetly clean..a few drunken one night stands gotme worried as **** though in the past. Once i pulled out and did it on her stomach because she told me she just finished her period and hadnt taken her pill. I've only ever used a condom twice in about 5 years
 

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lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.
never trust the pill.
 

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onyx said:
I always blow in them. 9/10 women around where I live are on the pill. I tend to know them a while before or they tell me their definetly clean..a few drunken one night stands gotme worried as **** though in the past. Once i pulled out and did it on her stomach because she told me she just finished her period and hadnt taken her pill. I've only ever used a condom twice in about 5 years
The problem is that while 1 in 10 aren't on the pill, a much higher ratio has STD's.
 

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oh well if they get pregnant atleast they know they gunna get a good lookin kid hahahha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love said:
The problem is that while 1 in 10 aren't on the pill, a much higher ratio has STD's.
yeh i know. I don't get with slutty women though, and like I said I know them a while before I usually sleep with them. Except them few scares but it turned out ok.
 

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lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.

What are the factors that reduce the pill's effectiveness?

I can think of: being on antibiotics, heavy cigarette smoking, and more commonly, missing a day or two of the pill.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.

What are the factors that reduce the pill's effectiveness?

I can think of: being on antibiotics, heavy cigarette smoking, and more commonly, missing a day or two of the pill.
well i know one time with me it was antibiotics for sure.
however there are one in a hundred women that the pill just does not work on.
i believe i was one of those women.
 

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in her. Figure out the birth control situation before if need be, but withdrawal method isn't effective birth control, don't rely on that! You can pull out and still get a chick pregnant.

Some women will not be happy with you if you assume they're okay with you coming "elsewhere" so be careful with that.

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Are you guys serious? I assume only if you're 100% sure she's on the pill then "in her" would be the norm?

What if you're not sure she's on the pill?
 

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"where do you want it" in a deep ghetto voice

For real though, i would just do it on her, depending on the position, take it out of her, and she will probably move to where she wants it, and let her do it if she tries.. Dont do it on the furniture, or yourself.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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