"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've used condoms my whole life so far. Even during my LTR.

For those of you that have sex with your girlfriend or FB or whatever and are NOT using a condom at the time... where do you blow your load? On her, in her(if on the pill?), on the bed, on yourself..?

Whats the normal thing to do?:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Are you guys serious? I assume only if you're 100% sure she's on the pill then "in her" would be the norm?

What if you're not sure she's on the pill?
 

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stumped said:
I've used condoms my whole life so far. Even during my LTR.

For those of you that have sex with your girlfriend or FB or whatever and are NOT using a condom at the time... where do you blow your load? On her, in her(if on the pill?), on the bed, on yourself..?

Whats the normal thing to do?:confused:
Well certainly not on your bed!:crackup: On yourself? And how on earth would that happen???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I just pull out and bust on her stomach and chest.
Sometimes it shoots in her hair or on her face :crackup:
 

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Sometimes it shoots in her hair or on her face

I know, I have awful aim too. I think the stains on her wall are still there.
 

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Even if she's on the pill, you got no business blowing your load inside her, you gotta make sure you turn her into a glazed donut.
 

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tell her to suck dry
its fun for you ,
its fun for her,
it makes no mess
and there is never a need for a pregnancy test.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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penkitten said:
tell her to suck dry
its fun for you ,
its fun for her,
it makes no mess
and there is never a need for a pregnancy test.

can you explain "suck dry"
 

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I always blow in them. 9/10 women around where I live are on the pill. I tend to know them a while before or they tell me their definetly clean..a few drunken one night stands gotme worried as **** though in the past. Once i pulled out and did it on her stomach because she told me she just finished her period and hadnt taken her pill. I've only ever used a condom twice in about 5 years
 

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lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.
never trust the pill.
 

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onyx said:
I always blow in them. 9/10 women around where I live are on the pill. I tend to know them a while before or they tell me their definetly clean..a few drunken one night stands gotme worried as **** though in the past. Once i pulled out and did it on her stomach because she told me she just finished her period and hadnt taken her pill. I've only ever used a condom twice in about 5 years
The problem is that while 1 in 10 aren't on the pill, a much higher ratio has STD's.
 

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oh well if they get pregnant atleast they know they gunna get a good lookin kid hahahha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Gangster Of Love said:
The problem is that while 1 in 10 aren't on the pill, a much higher ratio has STD's.
yeh i know. I don't get with slutty women though, and like I said I know them a while before I usually sleep with them. Except them few scares but it turned out ok.
 

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lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.

What are the factors that reduce the pill's effectiveness?

I can think of: being on antibiotics, heavy cigarette smoking, and more commonly, missing a day or two of the pill.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
lots of chicks get preggie while taking the pill.

What are the factors that reduce the pill's effectiveness?

I can think of: being on antibiotics, heavy cigarette smoking, and more commonly, missing a day or two of the pill.
well i know one time with me it was antibiotics for sure.
however there are one in a hundred women that the pill just does not work on.
i believe i was one of those women.
 

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in her. Figure out the birth control situation before if need be, but withdrawal method isn't effective birth control, don't rely on that! You can pull out and still get a chick pregnant.

Some women will not be happy with you if you assume they're okay with you coming "elsewhere" so be careful with that.

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Are you guys serious? I assume only if you're 100% sure she's on the pill then "in her" would be the norm?

What if you're not sure she's on the pill?
 

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"where do you want it" in a deep ghetto voice

For real though, i would just do it on her, depending on the position, take it out of her, and she will probably move to where she wants it, and let her do it if she tries.. Dont do it on the furniture, or yourself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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