Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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serious question using this for an approach advice.

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For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
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If you feel like learning how to take rejection then do this approach but if not, then this approach is probably the worst in terms of success rates. If you want more wins, you need to actually sit down and be genuinely(fake or not) interested in what she's doing, going or whatever.

Rapport/charisma is everything.
 
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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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You took the words out of my mouth.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thelonewolflegend again.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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skinnyguy said:
You took the words out of my mouth.
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It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
 
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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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Funny that you return my compliment with an insult. You are probably 15
 
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Because some have too many green dots to still bytch about how unfair waaaa waaaa waaaa
 
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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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LMAO

anyway in answer to OPs question no it won't work

because in that sentence there is zero emotion just logic

and we know how well women take to logic
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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No way. I want to see how many red dots op can go.
 
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