"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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serious question using this for an approach advice.

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For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
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If you feel like learning how to take rejection then do this approach but if not, then this approach is probably the worst in terms of success rates. If you want more wins, you need to actually sit down and be genuinely(fake or not) interested in what she's doing, going or whatever.

Rapport/charisma is everything.
 
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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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You took the words out of my mouth.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thelonewolflegend again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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skinnyguy said:
You took the words out of my mouth.
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It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
 
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It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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Funny that you return my compliment with an insult. You are probably 15
 
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Because some have too many green dots to still bytch about how unfair waaaa waaaa waaaa
 
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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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LMAO

anyway in answer to OPs question no it won't work

because in that sentence there is zero emotion just logic

and we know how well women take to logic
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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No way. I want to see how many red dots op can go.
 
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