"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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serious question using this for an approach advice.

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For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
 

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thelonewolflegend said:
For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
If you feel like learning how to take rejection then do this approach but if not, then this approach is probably the worst in terms of success rates. If you want more wins, you need to actually sit down and be genuinely(fake or not) interested in what she's doing, going or whatever.

Rapport/charisma is everything.
 

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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
You took the words out of my mouth.
 

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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thelonewolflegend again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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skinnyguy said:
You took the words out of my mouth.
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
 

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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
Funny that you return my compliment with an insult. You are probably 15
 

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Because some have too many green dots to still bytch about how unfair waaaa waaaa waaaa
 

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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
LMAO

anyway in answer to OPs question no it won't work

because in that sentence there is zero emotion just logic

and we know how well women take to logic
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
No way. I want to see how many red dots op can go.
 
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