"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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serious question using this for an approach advice.

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For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
 
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thelonewolflegend said:
For some reason i thought doing a direct upfront blunt approach how would this work or no?

Life is too short. I am very busy guy and dont want to waste time. I just want to know if you will go out with me next week. And ill go on next girl if decline.

Opinions? Cut the chiff chaff and only get chicks that like you.
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If you feel like learning how to take rejection then do this approach but if not, then this approach is probably the worst in terms of success rates. If you want more wins, you need to actually sit down and be genuinely(fake or not) interested in what she's doing, going or whatever.

Rapport/charisma is everything.
 
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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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You took the words out of my mouth.
 
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to thelonewolflegend again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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skinnyguy said:
You took the words out of my mouth.
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It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
 
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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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Funny that you return my compliment with an insult. You are probably 15
 
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Because some have too many green dots to still bytch about how unfair waaaa waaaa waaaa
 
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TheCWord said:
It is only by a glitch in the matrix that you have green dots instead of red :)
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LMAO

anyway in answer to OPs question no it won't work

because in that sentence there is zero emotion just logic

and we know how well women take to logic
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheCWord said:
Just something for the SoSuave suggestion box. Perhaps five red dots could result in an automatic ban?
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No way. I want to see how many red dots op can go.
 
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