"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Serious Problem: Must Read

C

CORVETTE06

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 1, 2006
Messages
249
Reaction score
1
I have a serious problem when it comes to hooking up with girls.

i KNOW how to make girls get hot, i know how to make them ***. but after i'm done doing stuff to them, they want to do stuff to me.

I have a serious problem where i get nervous and I can't get an erection no matter what. Everytime I hook up with a girl, this happens. THe only girl I was able to get it up for was my girlfriend because I was comfortable around her.

The next time I hook up with this girl, its going to look weird if I don't let her touch me again. I don't want her to touch me when im not hard cuz thats embarassing.

What can I do to help myself with my problem? I have a thing where I think girls are gonna think my **** is small.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

Michael Chief

Michael Chief

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 18, 2004
Messages
424
Reaction score
222
its all psychological, man. no need for doctors or viagra. you say you were able to make the soldier salute for your gf because you were comfortable. Comfort is obviously key here. you are insecure about women touching you when you aren't hard, but you should let them anyway. You want to get comfortable with them touching you!
Take porn as an example. The guy isnt always hard when he whips it out for the starlette to deliver lip service, yet he is confident as ever about exposing himself because he knows that he will eventually get it up.

confidence = comfort

you are no less than that, and you have the right to be confident with your body. relax with every breath and know that she is there to please you, not judge you.

one trick you can do is this:
whenever you feel comfortable and confident, do something unique with your body, such as making a specific shape with your lips or tongue (nothing too awkward and obvious). If you condition yourself enough, you should eventually be able to recall these feelings of comfort and confidence whenever you perform this action on command.
 
F

frisco

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2005
Messages
254
Reaction score
1
when ever i get nervous whith a women an we are being intimate i just ask a deep question like when her first kiss was what she felt when she lost her virginity ext. it fits the mood and takes attention off yourself. Then go back to making out or whatever
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top