"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I have a serious problem when it comes to hooking up with girls.

i KNOW how to make girls get hot, i know how to make them ***. but after i'm done doing stuff to them, they want to do stuff to me.

I have a serious problem where i get nervous and I can't get an erection no matter what. Everytime I hook up with a girl, this happens. THe only girl I was able to get it up for was my girlfriend because I was comfortable around her.

The next time I hook up with this girl, its going to look weird if I don't let her touch me again. I don't want her to touch me when im not hard cuz thats embarassing.

What can I do to help myself with my problem? I have a thing where I think girls are gonna think my **** is small.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its all psychological, man. no need for doctors or viagra. you say you were able to make the soldier salute for your gf because you were comfortable. Comfort is obviously key here. you are insecure about women touching you when you aren't hard, but you should let them anyway. You want to get comfortable with them touching you!
Take porn as an example. The guy isnt always hard when he whips it out for the starlette to deliver lip service, yet he is confident as ever about exposing himself because he knows that he will eventually get it up.

confidence = comfort

you are no less than that, and you have the right to be confident with your body. relax with every breath and know that she is there to please you, not judge you.

one trick you can do is this:
whenever you feel comfortable and confident, do something unique with your body, such as making a specific shape with your lips or tongue (nothing too awkward and obvious). If you condition yourself enough, you should eventually be able to recall these feelings of comfort and confidence whenever you perform this action on command.
 
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when ever i get nervous whith a women an we are being intimate i just ask a deep question like when her first kiss was what she felt when she lost her virginity ext. it fits the mood and takes attention off yourself. Then go back to making out or whatever
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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