"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have a serious problem when it comes to hooking up with girls.

i KNOW how to make girls get hot, i know how to make them ***. but after i'm done doing stuff to them, they want to do stuff to me.

I have a serious problem where i get nervous and I can't get an erection no matter what. Everytime I hook up with a girl, this happens. THe only girl I was able to get it up for was my girlfriend because I was comfortable around her.

The next time I hook up with this girl, its going to look weird if I don't let her touch me again. I don't want her to touch me when im not hard cuz thats embarassing.

What can I do to help myself with my problem? I have a thing where I think girls are gonna think my **** is small.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its all psychological, man. no need for doctors or viagra. you say you were able to make the soldier salute for your gf because you were comfortable. Comfort is obviously key here. you are insecure about women touching you when you aren't hard, but you should let them anyway. You want to get comfortable with them touching you!
Take porn as an example. The guy isnt always hard when he whips it out for the starlette to deliver lip service, yet he is confident as ever about exposing himself because he knows that he will eventually get it up.

confidence = comfort

you are no less than that, and you have the right to be confident with your body. relax with every breath and know that she is there to please you, not judge you.

one trick you can do is this:
whenever you feel comfortable and confident, do something unique with your body, such as making a specific shape with your lips or tongue (nothing too awkward and obvious). If you condition yourself enough, you should eventually be able to recall these feelings of comfort and confidence whenever you perform this action on command.
 
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when ever i get nervous whith a women an we are being intimate i just ask a deep question like when her first kiss was what she felt when she lost her virginity ext. it fits the mood and takes attention off yourself. Then go back to making out or whatever
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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