"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Seperating business with pleasure

guywhoneedshelp

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So I decided to PM this guy who lives on this forum here and gave him my phone number. He sent me some text message saying "meet me here now" so I went and met up with him thinkin' he'd prolly just be some AFC.

He was a PUA and brought me and my 5 friends to this wild place over on 10th ave and 17th street so that was nice of him. There was a lot goin' on we were talkin' to some british chicks in the lobby there but I really wanted a ceaser salad LOL so we were sitting at this table waiting for a waitress. Then I said "what's the deal with that girl she's all alone."

So dude from this web site moves out of the way and tells me "do it man" aight so no problem got good posture at this place so I start talking to her.

chick was nice but we talked about work a lot and since she does graphic design and I do a lot of video editing she ended up asking me for a card. Gave her a card then she gave me her e-mail address so I found her on facebook / etc. but kinda thinking this will only be a business relationship.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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nicelife

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it can be what ever relationship you wanna make it man

just make your intentions clear and follow the bible :D
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Okay.

Also, should I friend this girl on Facebook or should I wake a week/month/year ?
 

goodfoot

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I would send a friend request, but you can wait to talk to her.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Friended her, not talking to her. All is well. I'll just talk her though because I can see where she attends events on facebook. God bless the internet .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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