"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Seperating business with pleasure

guywhoneedshelp

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So I decided to PM this guy who lives on this forum here and gave him my phone number. He sent me some text message saying "meet me here now" so I went and met up with him thinkin' he'd prolly just be some AFC.

He was a PUA and brought me and my 5 friends to this wild place over on 10th ave and 17th street so that was nice of him. There was a lot goin' on we were talkin' to some british chicks in the lobby there but I really wanted a ceaser salad LOL so we were sitting at this table waiting for a waitress. Then I said "what's the deal with that girl she's all alone."

So dude from this web site moves out of the way and tells me "do it man" aight so no problem got good posture at this place so I start talking to her.

chick was nice but we talked about work a lot and since she does graphic design and I do a lot of video editing she ended up asking me for a card. Gave her a card then she gave me her e-mail address so I found her on facebook / etc. but kinda thinking this will only be a business relationship.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nicelife

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it can be what ever relationship you wanna make it man

just make your intentions clear and follow the bible :D
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Okay.

Also, should I friend this girl on Facebook or should I wake a week/month/year ?
 

goodfoot

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I would send a friend request, but you can wait to talk to her.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Friended her, not talking to her. All is well. I'll just talk her though because I can see where she attends events on facebook. God bless the internet .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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