"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Seperating business with pleasure

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guywhoneedshelp

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So I decided to PM this guy who lives on this forum here and gave him my phone number. He sent me some text message saying "meet me here now" so I went and met up with him thinkin' he'd prolly just be some AFC.

He was a PUA and brought me and my 5 friends to this wild place over on 10th ave and 17th street so that was nice of him. There was a lot goin' on we were talkin' to some british chicks in the lobby there but I really wanted a ceaser salad LOL so we were sitting at this table waiting for a waitress. Then I said "what's the deal with that girl she's all alone."

So dude from this web site moves out of the way and tells me "do it man" aight so no problem got good posture at this place so I start talking to her.

chick was nice but we talked about work a lot and since she does graphic design and I do a lot of video editing she ended up asking me for a card. Gave her a card then she gave me her e-mail address so I found her on facebook / etc. but kinda thinking this will only be a business relationship.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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it can be what ever relationship you wanna make it man

just make your intentions clear and follow the bible :D
 
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Okay.

Also, should I friend this girl on Facebook or should I wake a week/month/year ?
 
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I would send a friend request, but you can wait to talk to her.
 
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guywhoneedshelp

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Friended her, not talking to her. All is well. I'll just talk her though because I can see where she attends events on facebook. God bless the internet .
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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