Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Seperating business with pleasure

guywhoneedshelp

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So I decided to PM this guy who lives on this forum here and gave him my phone number. He sent me some text message saying "meet me here now" so I went and met up with him thinkin' he'd prolly just be some AFC.

He was a PUA and brought me and my 5 friends to this wild place over on 10th ave and 17th street so that was nice of him. There was a lot goin' on we were talkin' to some british chicks in the lobby there but I really wanted a ceaser salad LOL so we were sitting at this table waiting for a waitress. Then I said "what's the deal with that girl she's all alone."

So dude from this web site moves out of the way and tells me "do it man" aight so no problem got good posture at this place so I start talking to her.

chick was nice but we talked about work a lot and since she does graphic design and I do a lot of video editing she ended up asking me for a card. Gave her a card then she gave me her e-mail address so I found her on facebook / etc. but kinda thinking this will only be a business relationship.

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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nicelife

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it can be what ever relationship you wanna make it man

just make your intentions clear and follow the bible :D
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Okay.

Also, should I friend this girl on Facebook or should I wake a week/month/year ?
 

goodfoot

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I would send a friend request, but you can wait to talk to her.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Friended her, not talking to her. All is well. I'll just talk her though because I can see where she attends events on facebook. God bless the internet .
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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