"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seperating business with pleasure

guywhoneedshelp

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So I decided to PM this guy who lives on this forum here and gave him my phone number. He sent me some text message saying "meet me here now" so I went and met up with him thinkin' he'd prolly just be some AFC.

He was a PUA and brought me and my 5 friends to this wild place over on 10th ave and 17th street so that was nice of him. There was a lot goin' on we were talkin' to some british chicks in the lobby there but I really wanted a ceaser salad LOL so we were sitting at this table waiting for a waitress. Then I said "what's the deal with that girl she's all alone."

So dude from this web site moves out of the way and tells me "do it man" aight so no problem got good posture at this place so I start talking to her.

chick was nice but we talked about work a lot and since she does graphic design and I do a lot of video editing she ended up asking me for a card. Gave her a card then she gave me her e-mail address so I found her on facebook / etc. but kinda thinking this will only be a business relationship.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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nicelife

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it can be what ever relationship you wanna make it man

just make your intentions clear and follow the bible :D
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Okay.

Also, should I friend this girl on Facebook or should I wake a week/month/year ?
 

goodfoot

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I would send a friend request, but you can wait to talk to her.
 

guywhoneedshelp

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Friended her, not talking to her. All is well. I'll just talk her though because I can see where she attends events on facebook. God bless the internet .
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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