"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sending flowers...?

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Been dating this girl for a good two months, and one of her friends mentioned she liked pink roses, so I was thinking about sending a half dozen to her work, cause I know they love that kinda stuff...

Ive sent flowers to girlfriends before and its worked out great, but I forget how long I was in the relationship before I did...thoughts?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls love flowers.
But, just send her one rose and maybe a short message with it.

lol and this is your first post, some trouble you're having :p
flowers are cool, dunno why you need help sending them, because I do charge a high delivery fee.
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
 
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DJDamage said:
Flowers should be used only as a reward. Has she done something special for you to earn those flowers??
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
 
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getbusylivin said:
She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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alright send one flower with a message saying "thanks for dinner" or something... heh
I wouldn't give a girl one petal for making me dinner... unless she's like an awesome cook.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
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If your girl is sending you flowers and you call it the DJ way, you should rethink that. What the hell is a man going to do with flowers??!!

The DJ way is if your girl shows up naked at your door and brings food and drinks for the night. That is what I call satisfaction.
 
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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Alright then, just make sure that she knows it was for last night and also don't overdo with gifts, use them sparingly. You don't want to create a monter thinking that she deserves a gift everytime she does something nice or for just being there. As well never give women gifts after they done something bad.

You are her number 1 gift. Remember that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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