"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sending flowers...?

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Been dating this girl for a good two months, and one of her friends mentioned she liked pink roses, so I was thinking about sending a half dozen to her work, cause I know they love that kinda stuff...

Ive sent flowers to girlfriends before and its worked out great, but I forget how long I was in the relationship before I did...thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls love flowers.
But, just send her one rose and maybe a short message with it.

lol and this is your first post, some trouble you're having :p
flowers are cool, dunno why you need help sending them, because I do charge a high delivery fee.
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
 
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DJDamage said:
Flowers should be used only as a reward. Has she done something special for you to earn those flowers??
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
 
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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alright send one flower with a message saying "thanks for dinner" or something... heh
I wouldn't give a girl one petal for making me dinner... unless she's like an awesome cook.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
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If your girl is sending you flowers and you call it the DJ way, you should rethink that. What the hell is a man going to do with flowers??!!

The DJ way is if your girl shows up naked at your door and brings food and drinks for the night. That is what I call satisfaction.
 
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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Alright then, just make sure that she knows it was for last night and also don't overdo with gifts, use them sparingly. You don't want to create a monter thinking that she deserves a gift everytime she does something nice or for just being there. As well never give women gifts after they done something bad.

You are her number 1 gift. Remember that.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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