"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Been dating this girl for a good two months, and one of her friends mentioned she liked pink roses, so I was thinking about sending a half dozen to her work, cause I know they love that kinda stuff...

Ive sent flowers to girlfriends before and its worked out great, but I forget how long I was in the relationship before I did...thoughts?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Girls love flowers.
But, just send her one rose and maybe a short message with it.

lol and this is your first post, some trouble you're having :p
flowers are cool, dunno why you need help sending them, because I do charge a high delivery fee.
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
 
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DJDamage said:
Flowers should be used only as a reward. Has she done something special for you to earn those flowers??
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
 
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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alright send one flower with a message saying "thanks for dinner" or something... heh
I wouldn't give a girl one petal for making me dinner... unless she's like an awesome cook.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar said:
the DJ way though is to make her send flowers to you haha
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If your girl is sending you flowers and you call it the DJ way, you should rethink that. What the hell is a man going to do with flowers??!!

The DJ way is if your girl shows up naked at your door and brings food and drinks for the night. That is what I call satisfaction.
 
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She cooked me dinner the other night, and then gave me dessert...
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Alright then, just make sure that she knows it was for last night and also don't overdo with gifts, use them sparingly. You don't want to create a monter thinking that she deserves a gift everytime she does something nice or for just being there. As well never give women gifts after they done something bad.

You are her number 1 gift. Remember that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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