They learn the hard way eventually. It sucks to find out, but you gotta accept reality at some point. I think this is also why people become "bad", and never change after that. They still complain because they hate it, but still adjust themselves to it. Thus is life.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Semi-Scientific Ho test.... This **** is worse than we thought!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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so monagamy is a fairytale? Man, these stories are scaring the crap out of me. im young now but would like to marry maybe a decade from now, but now im having second thoughts lol
No.... It's just hard to find a decent one that you're also attracted to. A lot of young guys, especially, go after a certain kind of woman - because all they care about are looks. But, even the non-attractive women share the same lifestyles, and have the same mentalities as their peers. It depends on the crowd they belong to. Never forget that people attract what they are. If one or a few are trash - they probably all are.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
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Spot on. +1 Rep.floydb25 said:
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who missed this?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I'm not worried about getting cheated on. The girl needs to worry about me cheating.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
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"open" means its not a committed relationship... so what is the point of that???? only useful woman to be with is one who has more money that you and does more for you than you do for her and women like that are very rare and most men will never ever hav one oneArcBound said:
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right and that is what relationships are all about now a race to see who can cheat first and who can cheat more... that is such BS and not worth any large in vestment of time or money into a person at all..evansblue said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ironically, this is what *****s claim as they're trying to justify sleeping with everyone. It's not MY fault I'm a ***** - while still denying being a *****.DonGorgon said:
I just laugh about this stuff nowadays. No sense getting angry and bitter over stupid people who don't realize how shallow and hypocritical they are. Takes a while to realize that no one deserves your sympathy, trust, or heart. Everyone has a line and excuse.
But according to your research you say no woman is truly committed and they are all ho's anyways. So rather than go under the pretense of a relationship why not just call it what it is and make it an open relationship?DonGorgon said:
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cause if its open then why even call it a damn relationship??ArcBound said: