They learn the hard way eventually. It sucks to find out, but you gotta accept reality at some point. I think this is also why people become "bad", and never change after that. They still complain because they hate it, but still adjust themselves to it. Thus is life.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Semi-Scientific Ho test.... This **** is worse than we thought!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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so monagamy is a fairytale? Man, these stories are scaring the crap out of me. im young now but would like to marry maybe a decade from now, but now im having second thoughts lol
No.... It's just hard to find a decent one that you're also attracted to. A lot of young guys, especially, go after a certain kind of woman - because all they care about are looks. But, even the non-attractive women share the same lifestyles, and have the same mentalities as their peers. It depends on the crowd they belong to. Never forget that people attract what they are. If one or a few are trash - they probably all are.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
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Spot on. +1 Rep.floydb25 said:
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who missed this?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not worried about getting cheated on. The girl needs to worry about me cheating.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
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"open" means its not a committed relationship... so what is the point of that???? only useful woman to be with is one who has more money that you and does more for you than you do for her and women like that are very rare and most men will never ever hav one oneArcBound said:
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right and that is what relationships are all about now a race to see who can cheat first and who can cheat more... that is such BS and not worth any large in vestment of time or money into a person at all..evansblue said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ironically, this is what *****s claim as they're trying to justify sleeping with everyone. It's not MY fault I'm a ***** - while still denying being a *****.DonGorgon said:
I just laugh about this stuff nowadays. No sense getting angry and bitter over stupid people who don't realize how shallow and hypocritical they are. Takes a while to realize that no one deserves your sympathy, trust, or heart. Everyone has a line and excuse.
But according to your research you say no woman is truly committed and they are all ho's anyways. So rather than go under the pretense of a relationship why not just call it what it is and make it an open relationship?DonGorgon said:
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cause if its open then why even call it a damn relationship??ArcBound said: