They learn the hard way eventually. It sucks to find out, but you gotta accept reality at some point. I think this is also why people become "bad", and never change after that. They still complain because they hate it, but still adjust themselves to it. Thus is life.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Semi-Scientific Ho test.... This **** is worse than we thought!!
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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so monagamy is a fairytale? Man, these stories are scaring the crap out of me. im young now but would like to marry maybe a decade from now, but now im having second thoughts lol
No.... It's just hard to find a decent one that you're also attracted to. A lot of young guys, especially, go after a certain kind of woman - because all they care about are looks. But, even the non-attractive women share the same lifestyles, and have the same mentalities as their peers. It depends on the crowd they belong to. Never forget that people attract what they are. If one or a few are trash - they probably all are.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
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Spot on. +1 Rep.floydb25 said:
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who missed this?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I'm not worried about getting cheated on. The girl needs to worry about me cheating.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
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"open" means its not a committed relationship... so what is the point of that???? only useful woman to be with is one who has more money that you and does more for you than you do for her and women like that are very rare and most men will never ever hav one oneArcBound said:
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right and that is what relationships are all about now a race to see who can cheat first and who can cheat more... that is such BS and not worth any large in vestment of time or money into a person at all..evansblue said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ironically, this is what *****s claim as they're trying to justify sleeping with everyone. It's not MY fault I'm a ***** - while still denying being a *****.DonGorgon said:
I just laugh about this stuff nowadays. No sense getting angry and bitter over stupid people who don't realize how shallow and hypocritical they are. Takes a while to realize that no one deserves your sympathy, trust, or heart. Everyone has a line and excuse.
But according to your research you say no woman is truly committed and they are all ho's anyways. So rather than go under the pretense of a relationship why not just call it what it is and make it an open relationship?DonGorgon said:
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cause if its open then why even call it a damn relationship??ArcBound said: