They learn the hard way eventually. It sucks to find out, but you gotta accept reality at some point. I think this is also why people become "bad", and never change after that. They still complain because they hate it, but still adjust themselves to it. Thus is life.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Semi-Scientific Ho test.... This **** is worse than we thought!!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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so monagamy is a fairytale? Man, these stories are scaring the crap out of me. im young now but would like to marry maybe a decade from now, but now im having second thoughts lol
No.... It's just hard to find a decent one that you're also attracted to. A lot of young guys, especially, go after a certain kind of woman - because all they care about are looks. But, even the non-attractive women share the same lifestyles, and have the same mentalities as their peers. It depends on the crowd they belong to. Never forget that people attract what they are. If one or a few are trash - they probably all are.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
Generally, you have to sacrifice looks for personality if you want to find a meaningful relationship. Which is actually pretty hard if you're used to dating hotties. It's not as easy as flipping a switch. We go after what we're familiar with, and excites us - even if its bad.
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Spot on. +1 Rep.floydb25 said:
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who missed this?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I'm not worried about getting cheated on. The girl needs to worry about me cheating.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
Stop putting that pu$$y on a pedestal and get off this defensive, paranoid thinking. Your AFC ways are surfacing and you don't even realize it.
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"open" means its not a committed relationship... so what is the point of that???? only useful woman to be with is one who has more money that you and does more for you than you do for her and women like that are very rare and most men will never ever hav one oneArcBound said:
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right and that is what relationships are all about now a race to see who can cheat first and who can cheat more... that is such BS and not worth any large in vestment of time or money into a person at all..evansblue said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ironically, this is what *****s claim as they're trying to justify sleeping with everyone. It's not MY fault I'm a ***** - while still denying being a *****.DonGorgon said:
I just laugh about this stuff nowadays. No sense getting angry and bitter over stupid people who don't realize how shallow and hypocritical they are. Takes a while to realize that no one deserves your sympathy, trust, or heart. Everyone has a line and excuse.
But according to your research you say no woman is truly committed and they are all ho's anyways. So rather than go under the pretense of a relationship why not just call it what it is and make it an open relationship?DonGorgon said:
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cause if its open then why even call it a damn relationship??ArcBound said: