"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Self-Improvement

CadillacCTS

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I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how. Is there any websites that you guys use that have helped you improve your self?

Let this thread act as a reference to other resources that are available on the internet which can help us improve ourselves.

Here is my contribution

http://www.mindtools.com/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CadillacCTS

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I'd like to take the focus away from seduction, those who think be a DJ is just about getting some are mistaken. I read posts from ppl on this board who had all the girls but still weren't happy. I think to be a real DJ, you got the be and become the best damn man you can. When I say self improvement, I mean in terms of, style, fitness, health, career/wealth and so on...

PS. I wanna be a MADE MAN ;)
 

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Originally posted by CadillacCTS
I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how.
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I think that's the biggest utter bullsyht there is, "self improvement," but the lack of ambition could be solved with having more self energy.
 

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Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
 

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Originally posted by Titus
Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
Ambition.
 
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