"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how. Is there any websites that you guys use that have helped you improve your self?

Let this thread act as a reference to other resources that are available on the internet which can help us improve ourselves.

Here is my contribution

http://www.mindtools.com/
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd like to take the focus away from seduction, those who think be a DJ is just about getting some are mistaken. I read posts from ppl on this board who had all the girls but still weren't happy. I think to be a real DJ, you got the be and become the best damn man you can. When I say self improvement, I mean in terms of, style, fitness, health, career/wealth and so on...

PS. I wanna be a MADE MAN ;)
 
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Originally posted by CadillacCTS
I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how.
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I think that's the biggest utter bullsyht there is, "self improvement," but the lack of ambition could be solved with having more self energy.
 
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Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
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Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
 
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Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
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Ambition.
 
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