"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how. Is there any websites that you guys use that have helped you improve your self?

Let this thread act as a reference to other resources that are available on the internet which can help us improve ourselves.

Here is my contribution

http://www.mindtools.com/
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'd like to take the focus away from seduction, those who think be a DJ is just about getting some are mistaken. I read posts from ppl on this board who had all the girls but still weren't happy. I think to be a real DJ, you got the be and become the best damn man you can. When I say self improvement, I mean in terms of, style, fitness, health, career/wealth and so on...

PS. I wanna be a MADE MAN ;)
 
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Originally posted by CadillacCTS
I think this is the single most important thing in DJ lifestyle, having said that I like to improve self. But the problem is I don't have enough ambition and the know how.
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I think that's the biggest utter bullsyht there is, "self improvement," but the lack of ambition could be solved with having more self energy.
 
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Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lies
Finding a goal is more important than anything else.
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Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
 
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Finding a goal? Are you sure? Where do you think "goals" lead to?
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Ambition.
 
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