"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Second girl enters the scene
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Desdinova said:
this is exactly what I wanted to post in his other thread about riding the bus.
OH. MY. GOD. you are SOOOO overthinking and overanalyzing everything.
Getting pissed off at women for being witches with a b (<-reffering to the one that pissed you off in the gym, not sure whether it was this thread or the other...) is, among almost every other thing you described about yourself, the EXACT DEFINITION of being AFC.
I don't mean to be cruel, but dude, you seriously need to man up. You have to not give a fu(k, this is not something you can fake. Start reading through the bible (no not that one, the one that's linked at the bottom left of this page...).
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Point taken on the overanalyzing and need to man up, though, for 100%! And no, you're no being cruel, I need to hear the truth. I've been slowly making progress at conquering the AFC inside of me but lately I totally dropped back to my old ways. Your and other's posts in the last few days have been very helpful in that regard, I needed a kick in the butt to snap out of it and pick up where I left off. Thank you!