Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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Things are getting more complicated @ work... I had decided to finally make a move on that girl from work next Tuesday (see http://sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=167822) but last week a new one has entered the scene and she works in the same team as the other one! (I'll call the new one HB8 and the first one HB8.5)
I had met HB8 a few times earlier but only briefly, last Friday was the first time we had much interaction. I noticed quite some IOI's from her and we flirted a lot. Things went pretty smooth and I feel like I've made as much progress with her in one day of working together as I've made with HB8.5 in 5 or 6 days of working together! Of course that probably has to do with me becoming more comfortable at 'the game' over the last few weeks. I held back a lot with HB8.5 in the beginning and only started to make more progres with her when I found this forum and decided to change my ways...
Anyway, I feel like I might ask HB8 out pretty soon too! (I just want to establish some more kino with her before asking her out, just like I did with HB8.5) But you guys probably know what my dilemma is now... They both work on the same team and whoever I make a move on first, the other one is surely gonna find out and feel passed. Once I go for one, I really think I'll lose my chances with the other... But I don't know which one to choose! The HB8.5 is just a bit better looking than the HB8 but the HB8 seems to be more outgoing, more fun. In the end, they both look good and they're both fun...
So right now, I think I should just ask someone out as soon as a good situation to do so presents itself. The one who happens to be in such a situation with me first, will be the winner lol.
BUT... that's just my thought as a beginner DJ. I'd love to hear your thoughts about this situation, guys!
I had met HB8 a few times earlier but only briefly, last Friday was the first time we had much interaction. I noticed quite some IOI's from her and we flirted a lot. Things went pretty smooth and I feel like I've made as much progress with her in one day of working together as I've made with HB8.5 in 5 or 6 days of working together! Of course that probably has to do with me becoming more comfortable at 'the game' over the last few weeks. I held back a lot with HB8.5 in the beginning and only started to make more progres with her when I found this forum and decided to change my ways...
Anyway, I feel like I might ask HB8 out pretty soon too! (I just want to establish some more kino with her before asking her out, just like I did with HB8.5) But you guys probably know what my dilemma is now... They both work on the same team and whoever I make a move on first, the other one is surely gonna find out and feel passed. Once I go for one, I really think I'll lose my chances with the other... But I don't know which one to choose! The HB8.5 is just a bit better looking than the HB8 but the HB8 seems to be more outgoing, more fun. In the end, they both look good and they're both fun...
So right now, I think I should just ask someone out as soon as a good situation to do so presents itself. The one who happens to be in such a situation with me first, will be the winner lol.
BUT... that's just my thought as a beginner DJ. I'd love to hear your thoughts about this situation, guys!