"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Second girl enters the scene
- Thread starter Die Hard
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Desdinova said:
this is exactly what I wanted to post in his other thread about riding the bus.
OH. MY. GOD. you are SOOOO overthinking and overanalyzing everything.
Getting pissed off at women for being witches with a b (<-reffering to the one that pissed you off in the gym, not sure whether it was this thread or the other...) is, among almost every other thing you described about yourself, the EXACT DEFINITION of being AFC.
I don't mean to be cruel, but dude, you seriously need to man up. You have to not give a fu(k, this is not something you can fake. Start reading through the bible (no not that one, the one that's linked at the bottom left of this page...).
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Point taken on the overanalyzing and need to man up, though, for 100%! And no, you're no being cruel, I need to hear the truth. I've been slowly making progress at conquering the AFC inside of me but lately I totally dropped back to my old ways. Your and other's posts in the last few days have been very helpful in that regard, I needed a kick in the butt to snap out of it and pick up where I left off. Thank you!