Preach - thanks for the support in seeing where im coming from. As a single male, comfortable in my skin, career, lifestyle, I’m allowed to choose how I please in terms of my time and money. I chose not to see her again, something I am already benefiting from (I’m saving money/time, and getting to spend the night with a different girl, who actually is legit). As men we are free to do and choose as we please, and I won’t listen to crying white knights telling me I’m less of a man because I didn’t hold ONE date plan with someone I’m not genuinely interested in. Plain and simple.It's ok mate, feel free to flake on them if you want - listen to your intuition, if your intuition tells you something is off about interaction, follow it. Never listen to any guy or woman that tells you that you should follow some obligations.
They are mostly speaking through their own bad experience with ppl that acted like you may act and it's still only 50% of the story (perhaps they were flaked on because they didn't try to understand the other person or had their own insincere agenda).
Human emotional memory is like a plasticine.
I have a rather high level beta-friend that I helped to get his wife - true story - he was so deep in the emotional dumpster that he didn't believe he can get a GF - so I helped him to match with his wife being myself in the relationship already.
Fast forward 2 years later he started to shi.t-talk to me that I still hook up with girls on Tinder and when he felt 'attacked' because I told him he does not have what it takes to be an enterpreneur (mind I just returned the courtesy, he was the one that picked on me) - he didn't consider me friend since that point and I was pretty much responsible for his current personal happiness to large extent LOL
In his own mind I was this sneaky freestyle guy that ALWAYS lands on 4 paws, eh and he was the knight in the shining armour. Always.
Don't give a phuck about beta boyz 'follow the rulz' talk.
PHUCK their rulez. Go after your own purpose, let them rot in the bluepilled pool of s.hit. and alpha 1.0 outdated processing code.
Now, white knights, since we (apparently) care SO MUCH about the girl in this scenario, don’t you agree that cancelling the date altogether is in both of our best interests, vs me going on the date, “faking” a good time, and leading her on further? Lol - F that. “How dare you have such low moral code for flaking on her - you should have kept the date and led her on even further, perhaps slept with her to get her hopes up even further than before!” Ha - STFU. Going on a date just to “hold your word” and not because you “genuinely want to be there” is literally equally as bad. Morons.