Screwed up crap, need help

[cyjay201]

Hey guys.

Things are going pretty good between me and my g/f. However she always tells me how confused she is about me, and how she hasn't "figured me out" Which I'm guessing is a good thing.

The other thing is though is that everytime she tries to give me a hand job or bj, i never come....and I know for a fact that I don't have an erectile dysfunction. I won't bore you with those details.

Is it possible that I just can't perform in situations like this? Because I know for sure I have no erectile dysfunction.

Thanks

 

[tmpgstx]

It's hard to blow it if she is bobbing her head on it in fast foward fashion (at least for me). Have be more sensual - slow it down, practice deep-throating. Another good way is to just about blow it after having sex, but then come out and have her finish with her mouth! Too much fun.

 

[cyjay201]

K. Thanx. Any1 else?

 

[Wyldfire]

She probably is just inexperienced and awkward. When she's doing something that is working for you, let her know. You have to communicate with her about what feels good and does the job and what doesn't. It's best to focus on what she does right because if you tell her you like something she will do that more. Use verbal cues to get her to slow down by saying things like "I really like it when you go slow" or whatever. So, if she's doing something that just doesn't do anything for you, use phrases like that to get her to do something different. Always keep it positive, though, otherwise she will be discouraged and not want to do it for you.

 

[Valentino]

You could even watch a sensual porno together and say... "that looks like fun, lets try it" and then try the position/technique. This is ofcourse assuming that your gf isn't to uptight to watch a porno with you so guage her interest in it beforehand

 

[omizzi]

THAT'S GOOOOOD... THAT MEANS SHE'S INEXPERIENCED CUZ SHE NEVER DONE IT B4... SO PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT MEANING SOON WILL COME THE GOOD BJs.... ALSO, BJs R BETTER THAN HANDJOBS.... HANDJOBS KINDA SUCK